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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 23.06.2025 08:38

How does one succeed in life?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

That's it for today.

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

How did my ex move on very fast?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Do not set goals—set systems.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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Making more friends is a goal.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Does not procrastinate.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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What I need from you?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

What started the whole idea of femboys? What is the whole point of a femboy? Did a boy or a man just randomly start dressing or acting feminine or something?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Ask yourself:

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.